Whatever friends you've managed to find that make you happy Tobi, hang on to them for as long as you can. The longer they stick around, the more valuable they are for their kindness and understanding. People like that are difficult to come by, and while you may run into rough patches with people you consider to be close friends, as long as you perservere and pursue those bonds they'll only grow all the stronger. You'll be forged through fire with them, and come out better, harder, faster, stronger. (DAFT PUNK YO! -shot-)
In the end (as cliche as it is), the ones that mind don't matter, and the ones that matter don't mind.